Ultimately, this writing is made to help all families deal with the attack from the inside that will eventually cause a complete separation, having no boundaries in place for the child(ren). This leads to putting the child in the direction of constant battles to comprehend why their life is no longer at its best but has become increasingly abnormal.
The Pharaohian and Herodian syndrome will make ways to constantly divide, change, and take away what should be given to the child in every family--unconditional love. However, if you must deal with the redheaded stepchild syndrome (RSS), it can turn your whole life around to put you in a seemingly no-win situation where you may suffer in silence.
Today, I ask you to take the mask off externally and deal with the intrinsic feelings from within. This will begin to illuminate the real you and keep you in a remorseful state after you know that you were under attack to create chaos in your life. Let your heart turn to the child and his/her heart will turn to you. After you have taken things for a season, which is not a lifetime, move into the restoration period for all lives involved. To know restoration is to know who our redeemer is (Christ).
May your life and days be enriched from this day forward. Nothing you went through will be wasted. It will all be used for the glory of God. Your salvation was paid in full, and now is the time to live for the overflow in the harvest you cultivated. To God be the glory.