Identificar a un psicpata narcisista no es tarea fcil. Una gua para comprender sus mecanismos de manipulacin, protegerte de ellos y sanar, por la piscloga Elizabeth Claps.

Cmo vas a llamar psicpata narcisista a tu propia madre? A tu mejor amigo? Al «amor de tu vida ? Cmo es posible que alguien que diga quererte te haga tanto dao?

Y cmo puede ser que, encima, tu dolor parezca darle igual?

Parecen personas encantadoras, pero, cuando se introducen en tu vida, te manipulan, te hieren y te confunden hasta que un da te das cuenta de que has dejado de ser t. Te maltratan y te preguntas: « Ser mi culpa? , « lo estar provocando yo? , « estoy volvindome loca? . Pues no. Ni es tu culpa, ni te lo has buscado t, ni ests perdiendo la cordura. Lo que pasa es que el psicpata narcisista usa mecanismos para hacerte creer que t eres el problema. Y no cambiar.

Identificarlo y a alejarte de l es el primer paso para sanar las heridas que te ha causado y recuperar el control de tu vida.

As acta un psicpata narcisista:

# Te hace creer que es tu alma gemela y que estis hechos el uno para el otro.
# Es camalenico: se convierte en lo que t quieres ver en l o en ella.
# Se siente superior a los dems y te hace admirarle.
# Te miente, te manipula y consigue que dudes hasta de tu cordura.
# Te convierte en una persona dependiente.
# Si intentas alejarte, te manipula y chantajea emocionalmente para que vuelvas.
# Se victimiza y adopta el rol de salvador.
# Te apaga y absorbe completamente.
# Recuerdas cmo eras antes de que llegase a tu vida y echas de menos esa versin de ti.
# Sabes que tienes que salir de ah porque no eres feliz, pero no lo consigues.
# O, quiz, lleva tanto tiempo en tu vida que sientes que alejarte es dar un salto al vaco.

Este libro puede ayudarte a identificarlos, entender sus mecanismos de manipulacin, alejarte y sanar.

ENGLISH DESCRIPTION

Identifying a psychopathic narcissist isn't easy. Psychologist Elizabeth Claps offers this guide to understanding the techniques they to use to manipulate others so you can guard against them and heal.

How can you call your own mother a psychopathic narcissist? Your best friend? The "love of your life?" How could someone who says they love you cause you so much pain?

Worst of all, how can they seem not to care?

Some people seem charming when you first meet them, but as they insinuate themselves into your life, they start manipulating you, hurting you, and messing with your mind until one day, you realize you aren't the same person anymore. They abuse you and you ask, "Could it be my fault?" "Did I provoke this?" "Am I going crazy?" The answer is no. It's not your fault, you didn't bring this upon yourself, and you aren't losing your mind. Psychopathic narcissists are good at making others feel that they are the problem. And people like that don't change.

Identifying and getting away from them is the first step toward healing the wounds they inflict and regaining control over your life.

Clues that you are dealing with a psychopathic narcissist:

# They make you believe you are soulmates and that you were made for each other.
# They are chameleons: They become what you want them to be.
# They think they're better than everyone else and want you to admire them.
# They lie, manipulate, and make you doubt your own sanity.
# They make you dependent on them.
# If you try to leave, they manipulate and emotionally blackmail you until you come back.
# They victimize you and then take on the role of your savior.
# They overshadow and absorb you completely.
# You remember the person you used to be before they came into your life and miss that version of yourself.
# You are unhappy and know you need to leave but you just can't do it.
# Or they've been in your life so long that the thought of leaving terrifies you.

This book will help you identify psychopathic narcissists, understand their methods, get away from them and heal yourself.