En una cultura donde se ha sobrevalorado la entrega amorosa ilimitada, la vida en pareja se ha convertido en la principal forma de autorrealizacin. Un sentimentalismo exagerado ha hecho que se ignore el sacrificio personal que implica tal abnegacin. Sin embargo, el amor no lo justifica todo.Existe otra forma de entender el amor: amar sin destruirnos a nosotros mismos, huir de la idealizacin absolutista; se puede amar sin ansiedad y sin negociar los principios vitales que nos determinan. Un amor maduro es el que integra el amor por el otro con el amor propio sin conflicto de intereses. ENGLISH DESCRIPTION
"Who said that in order to love you had to annul yourself and put aside your life projects? To love you must not give up yourself, that is the maxim."Walter Riso In a culture where unlimited loving giving has been overvalued, life as a couple has become the primary form of self-realization. An exaggerated sentimentality has caused the self-sacrifice involved in such self-denial to be ignored. However, love doesn't justify everything. There is another way of understanding love: to love without destroying ourselves, to flee from absolutist idealization; It is possible to love without anxiety and without negotiating the vital principles that determine us. A mature love is one that integrates love for the other with self-love without conflict of interest.