While the ideas I want to capture in this book are about how couples commit foolish actions that can harm their lives and relationships. Behaviors, which I believe violate the alliance and justify the self-protective decision to end the relationship, are those where both spouses openly engage in destructive, dangerous, and perverse behavior.
There are numerous couples who are dissatisfied with their marriage but choose to remain silent. This uncertainty about the future often paralyzes people, preventing them from making sound decisions and leading them to consider infidelity as an option.
We start by getting to know another person, feeling a sense of glory, but we can't help but ask ourselves, what if I end up regretting it? "We're not saying it's better to wear it on the outside." "We don't want to feel guilty about the destruction that separation can cause." When there are children involved, the breakup becomes more painful.
I want to make it clear that I am not justifying or judging, but rather providing reasons and symptoms for what is commonly known as "the horns." In conclusion, humans are often unfaithful, even if it is due to trauma and conflicting thoughts.
Mientras las ideas que quiero capturar en este libro tratan sobre como las parejas cometen acciones tontas que pueden danar sus vidas y relaciones. Comportamientos que, en mi opinion, violan la alianza y justifican la decision de protegerse a si mismos al terminar la relacion, son aquellos en los que ambos conyuges participan abiertamente en comportamientos destructivos, peligrosos y perversos.
Hay numerosas parejas insatisfechas con su matrimonio que eligen permanecer en silencio. Esta incertidumbre sobre el futuro a menudo paraliza a las personas, impidiendoles tomar decisiones acertadas y llevandolos a considerar la infidelidad como una opcion.
Comenzamos conociendo a otra persona, sintiendo una sensacion de gloria, pero no podemos evitar preguntarnos, ?y si termino arrepintiendome? "No estamos diciendo que sea mejor llevarlo por fuera". "No queremos sentirnos culpables por la destruccion que la separacion puede causar". Cuando hay ninos involucrados, la ruptura se vuelve mas dolorosa.
Quiero dejar claro que no estoy justificando ni juzgando, sino proporcionando razones y sintomas de lo que comunmente se conoce como "los cuernos". En conclusion, los seres humanos a menudo son infieles, incluso si es debido a traumas y pensamientos conflictivos.