Have you ever felt the pain of humiliation from your father? Are you wondering why your father made your childhood so miserable? Do you sometimes rack your brain on why your father seems so different?
If Yes, read on.
It is sad to see many children carry the pain of parental abuse until the adult stage.
In the family with a perverse Narcissistic Father, there is only one very bright star: Him.
"Dark" sun of the family, the partner, and the children exist only as satellite planets that orbit around it, reflecting their light.
The perverse narcissist father always changes personality and behavior outside his home. He can transform himself into the opposite of what appears at home.
"In front of the world, the relationship with my father is perfect, but behind closed doors, everything changes."
This only increases the family drama of these children, forced not only to bear daily harassment but even unable to find understanding and comfort in the people they have close to them.
Children are challenged continuously through constant comparison. Generally, he elects a "Golden Child" and a "Scapegoat Child."
The first is the idealized extension of the father, or "The Chosen One," the one who is destined for great awards and honors, as desired by the Narcissistic Father for himself.
The scapegoat child's function is to be the container for the garbage that the narcissistic parent cannot accept to keep.
Whether they are Golden Children or Scapegoats, they are sadly alone because children of a narcissistic family cannot ally with the healthy parent, as in these family rules:
"If one parent is a perverse narcissist, the other is dominated by it."
This psychological damage grows into a disorder known as C-PTSD (Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder).
DOWNLOAD: Narcissistic Fathers, a practical guide for daughter and son to recognize a narcissistic parent abuse and how to heal and recover from CPTSD.
The book is centered on children that have lived through parental abuse. It will help adult children discover the truth about their childhood, the kind of parents they lived with.
The book is divided in THREE PARTS:
- PART 1: NARCISSISM
- PART 2: NARCISSISTIC FATHERS
- PART 3: RECOVERING FROM A NARCISSISTIC FATHER
Book content:
- What is Pathological Narcissism
- Manipulations used by Narcissistic Fathers
- Signs that a Narcissistic Father raised you
- Golden Child and a Scapegoat Child
- How Male Children can survive this abuse
- How Son can withstand this abuse
- The Narcissistic Enabler - Wife of the Narcissistic Man
- How to overcome C-PTSD
The Author, Rose Mary Parker, growing up, she struggled with emotionally immature parents and felt as though she was constantly walking on eggshells. Knowing the dynamics of her friend's family, she realized her home life was far from ordinary. Now, she is a happy mother of two daughters, who are both independent and strong, and life coach. She has devoted her life to helping others suffering from toxic relationships.
"I can't guarantee you that you will definitely recover from the deep wounds inflicted by your Narcissistic Father. I need your cooperation. Still, I can promise that this will be an essential step in your journey for healing and happiness".
Rose Mary Parker