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"There are no wrong turns, only unexpected paths." —Mark Nepo "If it is true, if it is beautiful, if it is honorable, if it is right, then claim it." —Rob Bell "Accept and acknowledge your own brilliance. Stop waiting for others to tell you how great you are! Believe it for yourself and about yourself." —Iyanla Vanzant "Here's what I want to know: Can we lighten up a little?" —Elizabeth Gilbert "The purpose of life is the expansion of happiness. Happiness is the goal of every other goal." —Deepak Chopra "You receive from the world what you give to the world." —Oprah…

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Special 25 Unexpected Things to Be Grateful for Right Now 122 Because the spirit of Thanksgiving should last all year long, we've found some small, surprising blessings you can appreciate every day, from new-and-improved Chardonnay to a diabolically clever way to disarm telemarketers. Plus: Our O Quiz reveals your personalized gratitude game plan. Features 130 READY OR NOT Looking after an aging parent is a challenge like no other. But hiding from the inevitable won't make it any easier. Our special 18-page guide will help you face the future head-on, from the incomparably fraught "talk" to the surreal final days—so you can give the best possible care to those who once took care of you. 148 FêTE ACCOMPLI! Navy is the new black, fancy pants are all the rage, and an easy smoky eye sparkles. Follow these…

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Contributors: Feeling Grateful

ELIZABETH SVOBODA Writer "The Morality Workout" page 79 I'll never stop being grateful for…my parents. While our beliefs sometimes differ, they gave me a solid moral foundation. My favorite way to say thank you is…by paying it forward. The adults who influenced me as a kid inspired me to become a mentor. The best thank-you I've ever received was…when a mentee—who doesn't like public speaking—got up at a banquet and thanked me for all I'd done for her. When I was a kid, I didn't realize how grateful I should have been for…my English teachers. Without them, I might not be the writer I am today. JENNIFER KAYLIN Writer "Don't Let Medicaid Break You" page 138 I'll never stop being grateful for…my health. I'm not the most wholesome eater or avid exerciser—I've just been exceedingly lucky. My favorite way to say thank you…

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Behind the Scenes

Tux Deluxe On this month's cover, Oprah throws the classic tuxedo a curve. "MY PANTS ARE SO TIGHT, I have to walk like this," Oprah said, holding her arms stiffly at her sides and doing a straight-legged shuffle like C-3PO's (if you can imagine C-3PO in a white suit, a lacy top, and sky-high stilettos). "But you look great!" said Gayle King, ever the supportive friend, as Oprah posed with her wavy locks blown by a strategically placed wind machine. "I like that bustier very much." O creative director Adam Glassman quickly set Gayle straight: "That's a camisole. It's called big boobs, not a bustier." Noted. —CLARISSA CRUZ STRAIGHT PRIMPIN' Fashion editor Jenny Capitain, Adam Glassman, fashion assistant Katie Fish, and photographer Ruven Afanador get Oprah camera-ready. CLOSET CALLTop: Oprah's tux options. Above: The…

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The Question

When was the last time someone took good care of you? Since back surgery left me with chronic pain, my husband has rubbed my back almost every night for more than ten years. When people ask how I live with constant discomfort, my answer is simple: Willy. DEBORAH HALLLondon, Ontario I've been feeling frumpy, but my daughter recently made me feel like a model. To help me see how my clothes looked in a mirrorless dressing room, she snapped photos of me on her phone, saying "Oh, don't move, Mom—you look beautiful!" KELLI WALLNERCorvallis, Oregon This past March, when I vacationed in my home country of Malaysia, my aunt made sure I jumped on the trampoline every day, sat in the sauna, and ate delicious food from her garden. POH WONGSomerville, Massachusetts When my 6-year-old daughter throws…

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We Hear You!

Cover to Cover When I see something I like in a magazine, I fold the page so I'll remember to go back to it. When my husband saw my September issue of O, he asked if I was making a paper Christmas tree because I'd folded so many pages! Thank you, Oprah, for a consistently informative, thought-provoking, and life-improving magazine. KATE MOSS Littleton, New Hampshire After years of receiving O, I think September's cover was the best. It was simple and elegant—just like all the stories, including Dr. Phil's "The Way You Do Anything Is the Way You Do Everything," which had such an uncomplicated but interesting message. Simplicity and elegance are things I've aspired to for more than 60 years, and the September issue was a great help! JANET WILMOTH Lisle, Illinois Snooze Control I enjoyed the…

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Here We Go!

RIGHT NOW millions of people are struggling with an incredibly challenging situation. They're facing a task that demands a staggering amount of time, energy, and strength. Many more millions will someday join them. Caring for an aging parent can feel like a superhuman feat. It can be exhausting, confusing, emotionally draining. But it can also be a lot easier with the right information and support, which is exactly what we're bringing you this month. Our feature on facing a parent's final chapter explores what the experience is really like, with moving stories from the trenches and smart, practical advice—even a few laughs (page 130). I think you'll also be moved by a very different kind of parenting story, written by the brilliant actress Emma Thompson, who took her teenage daughter to the…

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Be Part of Our Circle!

When it comes to living well, there's no better companion than O, The Oprah Magazine. Now you can take that relationship to a new level—by joining O's Circle of Friends, a special annual membership program that deepens your connection to all things O. $39 $387 VALUE Plus membership HIGHLIGHTS:One-year print and digital subscription to O • Hundreds of members-only discounts • Weekly e-newsletter with exclusive content from O editors $99 $491 VALUE Prime membership HIGHLIGHTS: Keepsake gift box of luxury beauty products • Two O gift subscriptions for friends and family • All Plus-level benefits $199 $597 VALUE Premier membership HIGHLIGHTS: Birthday card from Oprah • Surprise gift from The O List • Test-and-keep products (help us decide what to feature in O!) • All Plus-level and Prime-level benefits • And more! Ready to join the Circle? Learn more and sign up now…

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The Gratitude Meter

1. RIDING IN CARS WITH DOGS Get ready for some ridiculously cute joyrides. Photographer Lara Jo Regan's delightful book Dogs in Cars (out this month) captures the tail-wagging glee of canines enjoying the open road. Even more puppy love: At least three-quarters of her photogenic subjects are rescues. 2. DO THE RICE THING Inspired by the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge, an Indian journalist launched a now far-reaching campaign to tackle hunger: the Rice Bucket Challenge. To get involved, donate a bucket of rice to a food pantry and snap and share a photo. Check out #RiceBucket Challenge. No cold water required. 3. READ 'EM AND KEEP Feast your eyes on Puffin in Bloom, a new collection of four beloved coming-of-age novels—Anne of Green Gables, Heidi, A Little Princess, and Little Women—with gorgeous floral covers illustrated…

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Flower Girl

AS AN ART STUDENT at England's Newcastle University, Rebecca Louise Law wanted her nature-inspired oil paintings to invite viewers into a captivating setting, but didn't think a flat canvas was up to the task. "I needed new materials to create an immersive experience," says Law, 34. So she tapped into her roots for inspiration—"My dad is a gardener and grows thousands of flowers. It was crazy for me not to use them!" With help from her green-thumbed pop, she began hauling carloads of bouquets to her studio and sculpting 3-D installations that could spring from a wall or hang from a ceiling. In the past five years, she's designed dozens of breathtaking pieces: a whimsical rose-garden-turned-wall-hanging for an upscale restaurant, pink peony garlands and chandeliers for a Jo Malone London fragrance…

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Singular Woman: Food with Thought

WHEN HURRICANE KATRINA hit in 2005, Emily Torgrimson, then a budget-strapped college student, wanted to raise money for New Orleans—and naturally headed to the kitchen. "I spent my teenage years living on a farm without cable," the 29-year-old says. "Cooking is how I entertained myself." Torgrimson made 60 pounds of Cajun jambalaya and asked each of the 30 roommates in her co-op to donate a few bucks and invite friends. About 100 people arrived, whetting her appetite to give back. The next year, Torgrimson cofounded the nonprofit Eat for Equity, which offers communal, locally sourced feasts to support various charitable causes. Her gatherings serve up to 200 people at a sitting, at prices no one can beat: "Someone can pitch in $10, $20, or time washing dishes." The operation has grown…

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A More Festive Feast

PLEASE BE WHEATED "PLACE CARDS instantly pull together any table setting. Adorned with dried wheat sheaves (available at craft stores), these creatively show guests to their seats—and take ten minutes to make." DIY For each guest, cut a 2" x 4½" rectangle of brown kraft card stock. Make 2 slits with a small knife on the left side and slide through the stem of a dried wheat sheaf. Handwrite the name. FRONT-RUNNER "I LOVE BRINGING outdoor elements inside to evoke a rustic vibe, like with this twig runner. Perfectionism is not your friend here: The more varied the twigs, the more organic the feel. Add glam by scattering gold-sprayed leaves around the table." DIY Cut real or faux branches (available at craft stores) into 12" pieces. Cut 2 pieces of ribbon to the…

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Animal Instincts

WHEN PORTRAIT photographer Robin Schwartz took her then 3-year-old daughter to the circus, she never expected the toddler to fall in love. But once Amelia met a baby chimp named Ricky, "the two of them couldn't stop hugging," says Schwartz, who captured the mutual affection with her camera. That encounter inspired Schwartz to continue photographing the ways her daughter, now 15, bonds with animals. The pair have become creative partners, dreaming up whimsical, sweet portraits with all kinds of furry friends: Amelia leading the way for six llamas, curling up among kangaroos, cuddling with a camel, sitting next to a wallaby at a kitchen table. The 12-year project is now a book, Amelia and the Animals. "We try to create a world where there's no line between humans and animals," says…

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My Best Life: Amy Poehler

Best COLLECTION Fake food. I have a thing for realistic-looking faux fruit, tiny crocheted cupcakes, little carved pieces of sushi.… I even have a sleeping bag shaped like a slice of pizza. I have no idea where the obsession came from, but I hope it never ends. Best INDULGENCE Fancy underwear, which I buy all over the world. I'm not shy about throwing away my gently used pairs and replacing them with new ones. Best HOBBY Sketching and drawing with my 6-year-old son. We tape the pictures to the wall and pretend our house is a mini art gallery. This will turn him into either a cultured museum enthusiast or a narcissist who believes all his artwork is good enough to hang. Best ESCAPE My closet. A lot of people forget that you can go hide in…

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The World According to Gayle

AN ARROGANT ATTORNEY… (Robert Downey Jr.) comes home for his mother's funeral, only to get roped into defending his estranged father (Robert Duvall), who's been accused of murder. The Judge is an emotional Tilt-a-Whirl that keeps you guessing right up to the verdict. But aside from being a first-rate courtroom drama, it's about the need for vengeance, the need to forgive, the need to be forgiven, and the powerful need all sons seem to have for their father's approval. Let the Oscar buzz begin! WHO SAYS YOU CAN'T GET A BARGAIN…in the Hamptons? At this summer's Super Saturday charity event, my favorite find wasn't the clothes, but the Halo Pocket Power Starlight charger ($40; halo2cloud.com), which is a little longer than a lipstick, has a built-in flashlight, and keeps your phone juiced…

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The O List

Balancing Act Keep your next cocktail party from turning into an impromptu juggling session with these melamine plates, designed with a clever silicone bottom that turns your drink into a mini hors d'oeuvres stand. (Caskata Studio Tidbit Toppers, originally $30 for set of four, now 20 percent off with code OPRAH; celebratethehome.com) Fold Me Now Folding chairs: They're not just for middle school productions of The Crucible anymore. Especially when they're as chic as these enamel-finished steel frame, leather-upholstered numbers that you can customize in a range of cushion and frame colors. (Atomic Age Folding Chairs, originally $150 each, now 20 percent off with code OPRAH; izzymillion.com) Nesting Instinct Serve up everything from soup to nuts—not to mention salad and spaghetti—in these glazed porcelain bowls that nest for easy storage. (Middle Kingdom Hermit Bowls, $22…

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Enter for a chance to Win $5,000

Just for telling us what you think of O! Help us make O even better—take our survey today! O's editors want your opinion of this issue: the good, the bad, the "What were they thinking?!" Take our fast and easy online survey, and you'll automatically be entered for a chance to win $5,000! Visit novembersurvey.theoprahmag.com to get started. NO PURCHASE NECESSARY TO ENTER OR WIN. READER FEEDBACK SWEEPSTAKES. SPONSORED BY HEARST COMMUNICATIONS, INC. BEGINNING JANUARY 1, 2014, AT 12:01 A.M. (ET) THROUGH DECEMBER 31, 2014, AT 11:59 P.M. (ET) GO TO NOVEMBERSURVEY.THEOPRAHMAG.COM AND COMPLETE AND SUBMIT THE ENTRY FORM PURSUANT TO THE ONSCREEN INSTRUCTIONS. ONE (1) GRAND PRIZE WINNER WILL RECEIVE $5,000, ONE (1) SECOND PLACE WINNER WILL RECEIVE A $500 AMERICAN EXPRESS GIFT CARD, AND TEN (10) RUNNER-UP WINNERS WILL RECEIVE A $100…

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Adam's Style Sheet: The Little Black Dress

Dress, BB Dakota, $125. Earrings, Lydell NYC. Boa, Adrienne Landau. Dress, Mossimo for Target, $40. Cardigan, Boden. Earrings, White House Black Market. Dress, Milly, $675. Headband, House of Lafayette. Earrings, nOir. Cuff, Lisa Freede. Shoe, René Caovilla. Dress, Project Gravitas, $395. Headpiece, House of Lafayette. Earrings, Sheila Fajl Jewelry. Belt, BCBG Max Azria. Clutch, Emm Kuo. How to Find the Right LBD for You CHOOSE SIMPLE SHAPES in seasonless fabrics like ponte and jersey for a blank canvas you can dress up or down. Try sequins or lace for a drop-dead evening look. WHEN IN DOUBT, a scoopneck, three-quarter sleeves, and a knee-length hemline are universally flattering. Want some extra slimming action? Look for dresses with built-in shapewear. IT'S WORTH INVESTING in high quality. The payoff: a dress that will make you look amazing for years. For details…

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Why It's Worth It

"This genius service makes it easy for a woman to exercise her right to Choos!" —O CREATIVE DIRECTOR ADAM GLASSMAN Jimmy Choo Made-to-Order shoes, styles shown starting at $750 a pair; jimmychoo.com THE MATERIAL You can have your shoes made with suede, leather, exotic materials, glitter, or satin, and in just about every shade. Because the construction process is meticulous—each heel is sprayed and lacquered to match the color; all stitching is done by hand—turnaround time for the Italian-made shoes is about ten weeks. THE DETAILS Up to four gold initials or symbols can be placed on the soles for a pair that's even more personal. It also makes a gorgeous heirloom for a bride-to-be. (The SC here is the monogram of Jimmy Choo creative director Sandra Choi.) THE CUSTOM TREATMENT Flattering, well-constructed designs, like…

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Great Buys Under $100!

$69 Slimming contrast seaming makes this faux-shearling jacket seem expensive. (Sweater, joefresh.com. Jacket, forever21.com.) $40 A faux-fur scarf adds a sumptuous touch. $68 Bejeweled pendant necklaces look like heirloom pieces. (anntaylor.com) $50 EACH $70 Knit dresses are a big trend this season. Wear this one with tall boots, and you'll be instantly pulled together. (Dress, New York & Company; nyandcompany.com. Scarf, echodesign.com.) $70 $79 $38 $85 $78 EACH Horse bit cuffs in autumn colors give basic outfits an equestrian feel. (rebeccaraydesigns.com) FIELD DAY Michelle Dockery works her lady-of-the-manor style in Downton Abbey. Personalize a structured top-handle bag by tying on a silky scarf. (Bag, Ostwald Helgason x Aldo Rise; aldoshoes.com. Scarf, echodesign.com.) With this borrowed-from-the-boys wristwatch, you'll never be late for teatime (or any other time). (timex.com) A toasty-warm wool scarf in a menswear-inspired print is fresh with feminine pieces. (barbour.com) These cheeky galoshes with a wrap belt detail…

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Look What We Found!: Crème Fresh

STYLISH CREAMS LUSH LIPS THINNING-HAIR FIXES Here's an easy way to weave a touch of chic into the fabric of your everyday life: Drape yourself in this deeply hydrating and delicately scented body cream (Aerin Body Cream, $58; aerin.com). It's available in five scents—sweet Gardenia Rattan (seen here), Amber Musk, Lilac Path, Ikat Jasmine, and Evening Rose—and each tube features an exclusive Aerin for Lee Jofa fabric design specially chosen to reflect the elements of the fragrance. LOOK WHAT WE FOUND! LIP COLOR LUST A gorgeous lipstick can make you feel prettier, your day seem brighter, and life in general a tad more glamorous. The latest star performer: the Lipstick Queen Silver Screen collection ($50 each; lipstickqueen.com). We've got all seven of the ultraglossy shades on rotation—from vibrant red and purple to the more…

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The Morality Workout

THE NEW ADHD DEBATE SIX STEPS TO A HEALTHIER HEART DONNA HAMLIN HAS SEEN IT OVER and over, so often that she's rarely surprised anymore. Someone at work suggests doing something unethical, and instead of speaking out against it, everyone else either agrees or looks the other way. Once, a former colleague hatched a plan to lie in a press release about upcoming layoffs—with the approval of the company's lawyer. "I finally asked, 'Is anyone else finding this entirely unacceptable?'" says Hamlin. She's been threatened with firing if she didn't go along with lies about sensitive company matters. "None of it was legal, but who wants to risk losing their job?" While it's easy to rattle off a list of deeply held ethics ("I always tell the truth!" "Of course I'll do…

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Are Men's and Women's Brains Really Wired Differently?

IF YOU'VE EVER suspected that the men in your life are operating on a different wavelength, you aren't entirely wrong. Researchers recently used brain imaging to map the pathways of thought in 949 subjects ages 8 to 22. The results revealed some distinct disparities in how males and females process information. To learn more, we reached out to study coauthor Raquel Gur, MD, PhD, director of the neuropsychiatry section at the University of Pennsylvania Perelman School of Medicine. Q: Let's start with the data. Can you walk us through the difference you noticed? A: We saw far more connections across the brain's two hemispheres in women than in men, indicating that women tend to adopt a more global approach to processing information. They take it all in, ping thoughts between areas associated…

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Coming into Focus

RACHEL WAS A COLLEGE FRESHMAN when she first tried the amphetamine-based prescription drug Adderall at a party. She liked the mild high it gave her, and soon she began paying friends a few bucks for a pill here and there, whenever she needed a little help concentrating on her course work. "All of a sudden I had this amazing focus," she says. Fast-forward a few years to 2011, when she found herself disengaged at work and having difficulty staying on task. After getting a few pills from a friend, she finally asked her psychiatrist (whom she was seeing for anxiety) for a prescription for the drug, which is commonly used to treat attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). "I just dropped into the conversation that I'd been taking a friend's meds,…

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The Heart Checkup

ASK ANY DOCTOR, and she'll tell you that discussions about heart disease almost always end with a "yeah, but"—like, "Yeah, but I'm not at risk," or "Yeah, but it doesn't run in my family." Yet about every minute, a woman in the United States dies from the condition. To increase awareness, New York–Presbyterian Hospital's Ronald O. Perelman Heart Institute and the Barbra Streisand Women's Heart Center at Cedars-Sinai have teamed up to launch the Women's Heart Alliance and a campaign called Fight the Ladykiller. The goal: to urge women to take heart health seriously. Start by answering these questions. What's your daily diet and exercise routine? If you eat more burgers than Brussels sprouts and can't remember the last time you broke a sweat, start small: "Just going from no physical activity…

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Acts of Faith

MARILYNNE ROBINSON'S Lila (FSG) is an enthralling meditation on belief, suffering, and grace. The story of a woman raised without a home, a family, or God ultimately becomes a celebration of what it means to be alive. Robinson's readers will recognize the title character and her husband, the Reverend John Ames, from the Pulitzer Prize–winning Gilead, set in the small Iowa town of that name, as well as from the 2008 novel Home. This time around, however, we first meet Lila as a child, when she is spirited away from nightmarish neglect by a woman named Doll, who can't give her much besides her love. For years after Doll disappears, Lila's most cherished possession is the knife Doll used to kill a man to protect her. Before meeting Ames, Lila has hardly…

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Promises to Keep

REMEMBER THAT scene in the movie Marathon Man when Laurence Olivier, playing the evil dentist, repeatedly asks Dustin Hoffman, "Is it safe?" That is a question I ask myself more and more with regard to my 14-year-old daughter, Gaia. The world, in my estimation, is crusting over with merciless consumerism. War gives birth to more war. Earth's temperature is rising. I find myself wondering, What will become of our planet—and my daughter, whose very name means earth? My girl is a wild Blink-182 fan who values her independence and urgently wants a tattoo and a nose ring. Her mind is not necessarily occupied with such questions as whether the earth will survive. So when on a chilly February day in London, my friend Joanna Kerr, executive director of Greenpeace Canada, calls…

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Opener

They give us life, offer us guidance, and provide us with decades of love—and as they age, they come to need us as much as we once needed them. Welcome to the all-consuming, world-upending, bittersweet task of caring for an aging parent (page 130).… There are so many lovely little things to be grateful for—and we've gathered 25 of them to get you started (page 122).… This season of celebration calls for party-worthy fashion and beauty tips. We'll help with both (page 148).… And pull up a chair to join a food-obsessed family in one delicious pre-Thanksgiving run-through (page 156).……

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25 Unexpected Things to Be Grateful for Right Now

1 YOU NO LONGER HAVE TO BE ASHAMED OF ORDERING THE CHARDONNAY. The much-maligned wine of work functions and weddings could use a makeover—and it's getting one. "Many vintners are embracing a lighter style with more citrus fruit and some tartness," says master sommelier Gillian Ballance, who recommends choosing bottles marketed as light or crisp. Her top picks: FOR UNWINDING ON A WEEKNIGHT Hess Select Chardonnay "Not too oaky, with melon flavor and hints of vanilla and spice." ($12) FOR A SATURDAY DINNER WITH FRIENDS 2012 Olivier Leflaive Bourgogne Blanc Les Sétilles "Mineral-y with notes of apple and pear, plus a smoky finish." ($27) FOR A TRULY SPECIAL OCCASION 2012 Beringer Private Reserve Chardonnay "Creamy texture with ripe pineapple and citrus. This bottle always overdelivers!" ($44) 2 INDIE ROCK SUITABLE FOR PARENTS. In September, the two-man band Tweedy—Jeff Tweedy of Wilco and…

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Ready or Not

TAKE My Advice Even though you don't want to. Even though you think you don't need to. (You do.) By Jane Gross THE PHONE RANG. It was a friend calling for guidance—as friends often have since I've become what my brother calls the angel of death. Having started a blog and written a book about caring for aging parents, I'm now an expert, it seems, on what is broken about long-term care in America, which is pretty much everything. My friend on the phone is one among many who profess to want help but who actually want to be told they don't need it. They'd rather hear that everything is fine and will likely remain that way for a long time, maybe forever. If only I could reassure them that this were true—that their…

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Ready or Not

Don't Go Broke Yes, your parents' finances are an issue. But Suze Orman wants to be sure you safeguard yours. Adult children who become caregivers often pay a steep price. According to a 2011 MetLife study, women older than 50 who leave the workforce early to fulfill this role forfeit about $324,000 in wages, Social Security payments, and retirement benefits. However, with some smart strategies, you can avoid sabotaging your financial future. Ask an accountant about potential tax breaks. You may be able to claim an elderly parent as a dependent if they have an annual income of less than $3,900 and you provide more than half their financial support. If you cover medical expenses, those costs may also be deductible. If you become a full-time caregiver, don't support yourself by dipping into your 401(k)…

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Ready or Not

The Happy Ending After her mother took to bed, LILY TUCK read her a novel by Henry James—and righted one of literature's great wrongs. MY MOTHER was blonde and very beautiful—her looks were often compared to Greta Garbo's—and she spoke with a charming middle-European accent. Although she never graduated from high school, she was very wise and had good instincts. She was also warm and vivacious, and people liked her immediately. Indeed, many people loved her. We were very different. I was studious and quiet. Although slightly mystified by my accomplishments as a writer, my mother was always proud of me. (After her death, I found a scrapbook she had kept with all my book reviews—good and bad.) Despite our differences, we were very close. My mother died after a long and painful illness,…

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Fête Accompli!

27 Genius fashion & beauty tips that will have you prepped for party season. 1 INVEST IN AGREAT EVENINGBAG. YOU'LLHAVE ITFOREVER. Choose one in a standout color—it will add pop to neutral outfits and brights alike. Handbags, Nina, $52 each; zappos.com 2 YES, YOUCAN WEARFLATS AFTERDARK—ANDTHEY CANBE JUST ASSPECIAL ASHEELS. Choose embellished styles or jewel tones for a dressy look that lets you stay on the dance floor longer. Flats (from top): $325; lkbennett.com. $295; toryburch.com. $395; nicholaskirkwood.com. $150; sam edelman.com. $239; prettyballerinas.com. 3 MAKE YOUR DAYTIME JEWELRY SPARKLE. Spice up everyday pieces with diamonds (real or not). The combination of simple and ornate makes the look fresh. Enamel bangles, $65 each; rjgraziano.com. Crystal bangles, $55 each; swarovski.com. 4 For a three-minute facelift, groom your brows. FILLING THEM IN WILL ADD POLISH TO YOUR HOLIDAY FACE, SAYS L.A.…

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The Family that Cooks Together

THIS ELEGANT MANHATTAN APARTMENT—its tall ceilings, bisque walls hung with grand oil paintings, and windows overlooking the thrilling green of Central Park—is full of warm, familiar sounds, like bare feet on wood floors and knives drumming against cutting boards and the snapping pops of delicious fried things becoming delicious fried things. But the smell in here, a combination of roast turkey, olive oil, fresh herbs, and caramelized sugar, is the place's most extraordinary feature by far. Follow it through the front door and you'll find yourself in the kitchen, where food magazines are stuffed in every nook, the cupboards contain everything from corkscrew pasta to coriander, and four women who look remarkably alike are making Thanksgiving dinner. Well, sort of. Today the women of the Pollan family—Corky, the matriarch, and daughters…

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The Power of 3

Sausage and Chard Soup Preheat oven to 375°. In a pot, heat 1 Tbsp. olive oil over medium heat. Cook ½ pound Italian sausage, crumbled, until no longer pink, 5 minutes; transfer to a bowl. Add 2 sliced leeks and cook until soft, 6 minutes. Add ½ tsp. smoked paprika and cook 1 minute. Add ½ cup white wine and simmer until reduced by half, 4 minutes. On a baking sheet, toss 4 ciabatta slices, cubed, with olive oil and sprinkle with ¾ cup grated Gruyère. Bake until golden, 12 minutes. To pot, add 6 cups chicken broth and 1¼ pounds russet potatoes, peeled and sliced. Simmer until tender, 20 minutes. Puree soup in a blender and return to pot. Stir in ½ cup milk, ¾ tsp. salt, and ½ tsp.…

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Mixing Bowl

Genius Idea! ROAST YOURRADISHES As much as we love snacking on radishes raw with a little butter and salt, browning them in the oven, which tames their spiciness and brings out their sweet side, might be our new favorite preparation. Here's how Cree LeFavour, who wrote the new cookbook Pork, roasts the root: Preheat oven to 400°. On a baking sheet, toss 24 watermelon radishes, trimmed and sliced into ¼" rounds, with 2 Tbsp. olive oil. Spread in a single layer and roast until radishes begin to shrink and edges brown slightly, 8 to 10 minutes. Sprinkle with flaky sea salt and serve. Total time: 15 minutes. Tool to Try BEST IN GLASS A watched pot may never boil, but you'll still want to check out whatever's cooking in this Italian borosilicate glass vessel, tempered…

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Shop Guide

(All prices are approximate.) HEAVY METALS Take a shine to metallic heels—and 26 other hot holiday looks—in "Fête Accompli!" on page 148. COVER On Oprah: Tuxedo jacket, $3,495, and trousers, $955, Rena Lange; renalangeusa.com. Camisole, Wacoal, $60; wacoal-america.com. Hat, $48; hatattack.com. Earrings, $1,640, and gold ring, $4,900, Roberto Coin; 212-486-4545. Necklace, Yossi Harari, $9,500; bergdorfgoodman.com. Pink sapphire ring, price upon request; pomellato.com. Shoes, Nicholas Kirkwood, $1,495; matchesfashion.com. ADAM'S STYLE SHEET PAGE 54Clockwise from top left: Dress, BB Dakota, $125; nordstrom.com. Earrings, $55; lydellnyc.com. Boa, $125; adriennelandau.com. Dress, Mossimo for Target, $40; target.com. Cardigan, Boden, $528; bodenusa.com. Earrings, White House Black Market, $40; whbm.com. Dress, $395; projectgravitas.com. Headpiece, $300; houseoflafayette.com. Earrings, Sheila Fajl Jewelry, $698; sheilafajl.com. Belt, BCBG Max Azria, $78; bcbg.com. Clutch, Emm Kuo, $678; ekrdesigns.com. Dress, Milly, $675; Saks Fifth Avenue, 212-753-4000.…

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What I Know for Sure

I'VE BEEN ON THE ROAD now since September, going from city to city on weekends for The Life You Want tour. It's a dream that's lived in me forever: to travel the world speaking face-to-face with women (and some very cool men) about the thing that matters most—raising our individual and collective consciousness to a higher vibration so that we each may fulfill our innate calling. In every city, I've been overjoyed to see people sharing their openhearted yearning to reach for something more, their desire to do and be better. And in the process of sharing my stories, mistakes, and big lessons, my own commitment to living more fully has deepened. That which I most wanted to give has been given to me. It makes me so happy—and is the greatest…

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